I have done some research on this because I feel like this situation is so lopsided. Many women give their boyfriends and husbands chance after chance to redeem himself after infidelity. However, during my research I found that men rarely stay with their girlfriends or wives when they cheat. The ones that do stay, stay to prove a point, put their women thru torture, prove to themselves they are the man etc. It’s all an ego trip for them from what I have personally seen and read. On the contrary, the reason they don’t stay is because of their as well, and the fact that they have more of a hard time imagining another man inside of his women. Notice that I said “his”, meaning possession. With this revelation, I wanted to see if what I researched was correct by conducting a poll. Since I can’t post flash in this post, I would like for you to say “yes” or “no” to the following question.
Men – If your girlfriend or wife cheated on you would you take her back? And why (optional)?
Women – If your boyfriend/husband cheated on you would you take him back? And why (optional)?
Thank you to all of you whom are willing to openly answer this question the my survey! I will have a second part of this article, however; I just first want to get opinions on this.
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