Last article it was sexting—I guess is what they call it now. Well “sexting equals nexting”, but what is even worse is when a guy sends pictures of him nude. Surprisingly enough (I know) I am not interested in seeing a guy nude before I go on a date with him. Not really trying to picture him the way I saw him in the picture he previously sent during the date—besides it takes the fun out of the hand check. You know the hand check girls! I am a firm believer that no matter how much you are curious certain body parts should be left unseen until it’s that appropriate time – sex!
Moral of this story: Keep your nudies after the date guys! Besides, you just might kill your chances if your package size is not to your potential date’s liking.
IMO, flirting with the idea is okay; like showing a peck here and a peck there is fun and playful. Teasing your date will create the ultimate anticipation. Just less is more. Too much can screw up a potential long-term relationship and make it too much based on sex—that had not even happened yet.
Trust me, I am speaking on personal experience here—not that I have ever been the one to send nude pictures of myself *wink*. But if I did, I would be well aware that the guy would not respect me or take me seriously. I also keep in mind that it definitely would not set me aside from the rest of the ladies doing that same thing!
With that said – now on to the ladies!
Read this carefully ladies: While guys sending us nudie pics are sometimes a bit weird and uncomfortable – us sending them bobbie, bootie, or coodie shots is just not lady like and will give the man the wrong idea. And know that there will be some men that will try to coax you into it and even beg, so please beware of that. You only do that if you are looking for a boy toy not a serious companion. So just DO NOT do it! You also don’t want to risk this person having lack of integrity and plaster it all over the net or show it to his homies. By the way, unless you are Kim Kardashian with a momager like Kris Jenner, this won’t help your career or make you millions. Thought I would say that just in case this was going thru your mind.
All and all, it’s okay to be playful even ride the line of seduction, if you know where to stop it, but fully showing the goods is not something I would co-sign on.
The Pre-Date Killer III coming soon so stay tuned!
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