Confirming a Plan is Not Always Confirmation
I have this friend that I love dearly; however, she will make plans with me and even confirm but will never show up—no call, no text, no email… NADA! In fact, she does this to everyone. Do you have a friend like this? You might be reading this and saying “Yeah You!” But don’t get this confused with just not being able to come out or saying later, “I can’t come out anymore!” Yes, that is...
But I Also Can’t Live WITH You!
Some people just can’t cohabitate. But can a relationship survive this? The answer is that it all depends on the two people together A couple years ago when I traveled to Miami with friends, I met one of their happily married grandparents. They happen to not only live in different houses they also live in two different neighboring states. Being that I am so interested in relationships, I asked her how long...
By Taking Your Friend’s Ex- Mate
When you can’t find a man or woman on your own, why not take your friend’s ex? It’s like the Love Classifieds for Dummies. You already know how you will be treated because of how he or she treated your friend when they were together. Then, there’s no guessing on how he or she is in the bedroom because your friend probably already shared the graphic details. And you probably know this person’s annoying...
And I Smother
How many of you reading this does this describe you in a relationship? This used to describe me actually. I figured out thru my relationships that this was on the one thing that probably made me less appealing. I had this thing where I didn’t make a man feel like one. To fix that, I just decided to start dating men—the kind that I really can’t do anything for. I put myself in a position where I get approached by more men that...
Don’t Be One!
I know you are probably wondering what the heck a “friendabler” is. Well, it’s a friend that enables their friends. Get it? Okay, now that you get it, think about the people you have around you, specifically your friends. You probably have both; enablers and ones that yearn to be enabled. Next, think about what category you fall in. If, it’s neither congratulations you are the perfect friend and you need not read any...